Don’t take it personallyAug 27, 2023
The phrase, “Don’t take it personally” is worse than useless.
What can you say instead?
Remember the CPD formula for making requests?
Make it clear (ask for a start or stop behavior), positive (ask for what you do want, rather than what you don’t), and doable (by the other person).
Wanting someone to not take something is a perfectly reasonable request, but is it doable?
How about saying: “The next time you receive criticism, can you reflect back on what you heard before reacting?”
OK, that’s doable.
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